fix(sendDtmf): return success status and harden codec preference logic

[smoghe-bw]

Make sendDtmf return true/false based on whether tones were queued on at least one stream, and only touch setCodecPreferences when the caller explicitly provides preferences, falling back safely on rejection across browser implementations.

[bwappsec]

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