[EPIC] Improve Comet metrics

[comphead]

What is the problem the feature request solves?

The epic to track Comet improvements to report Spark UI metrics

• Add encoding + compression metrics to columnar shuffle #1212
• native_datafusion doesn't report input metrics #3735
• Native writer doesn't report written bytes #3608
• native shuffle read metrics
• native shuffle write metrics
• Task metrics (bytes read) for CometIcebergNativeScan #4002

Describe the potential solution

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Additional context

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[mbutrovich]

Should add #4002 to the task list.